Have You Heard of This: BDE?

Honestly, it was news to me. Not in the sense that I didn’t know what it means. Rather what having it implies. For those who does not know the acronym, it is short for Big Dick Energy. It isn’t about male genitalia. It’s not about inches or girth. Instead, it’s the well-endowed self-confidence that doesn’t define…

The Luck of the Irish

It’s crazy to think I’ve been blogging for so many years. I like to read some from the past and realize how absurd I was (or still am). I own it like Lisa Rinna. Throughout the years, I would like to say I gained wisdom on some level. I am sure my fashion sense has…

ありがと- “Arigato”

I have been meaning to write posts of my travels from the last few years, but I haven’t had a chance to compile all of the glories from each trip. But given  I have free time for the next two days, I decided to share the wonderful lands of different parts of the world that…

New Year, F**k Off

You ever have that feeling when you just don’t have anything to say? I think that was 2016 for me. Instead of having an opinion about everything that happened in 2016, I was a spectator. Anderson likes to tell me that I am a mute. Gabriella tells me that I ask a million questions, yet when it’s reciprocated, I…

I Think I Need LASIK

It’s official! I enjoy the city! I knew I would, but I didn’t think it would happen so fast. I adapted to my commute rather quickly. Learned how to shuffle through the madness when walking to work. Got used to the stank from the homeless people, except when I pass public telephone posts. Why does…

Good Morning New York City

It’s been a hot minute, but I am back. As usual, I have a lot of projects that I am working on, but one of the newest change is my job, in every aspect. It was hard to part ways with my previous employer as I gained valuable friendships with so many. However, I like to think…

You Have Awoken the Beast

Almost… Things I do: Work full-time (Nothing out of the norm. It’s expected when you are 27.) I own my own fashion line; I teach art on the side; Keep up with my social life. Things that I have to deal with: My younger sister’s newly diagnosed illness, NMO; My mother’s psyche with having her…

Green Mexican Gumbo

It’s no secret that I love to come up with my own recipes, but I always forget what I did or what I used.  It’s very rare that I can make the same recipe twice.  Thus, I am attempting to jot them down. On Friday, I went to the local art fair where they had…

What Goes Up Must Come Down

It is crazy that it is December. It feels like it was January not too long ago when I made my New Year’s resolutions. I kept with some, and I didn’t attempt the others. Unfortunately for me, my lack of memory will not help my defeat because I have written it down for the world…

Those Who Know Do Not Believe

There are so many times I wonder if I am doing the right thing in every aspect of my life. For the most part, I think I am, others can decide for themselves.  Of course there are things that I know I need to work on.  But more importantly, I ask myself if I am…

Toxic Friends with Benefits

There comes a time in every person’s life where they question how much is too much? That can be a question for an array of things; chocolate? sex? stuffed animals? For me, none of those are the reasoning behind my question. Lately, “how much is too much partying?” has become the theme of our lives….

YOLO to the Max

Once Drake rapped YOLO to me, I became a true believer of it. But it wasn’t till I recently turned 25 that I took YOLO to its utmost potential.  This weekend, I took it to another level with Jenny and Gabriella. For me, it started on Friday. After work, usually I am beyond exhausted to…